“Honestly, I really had a lot of hope that you and I would go somewhere, but I guess that isn’t the case. 20 “I can’t believe I fell for all your lies and your tricks, but I guess that’s what happens when you are trusting and have a big heart. And especially if he is asking for a second shot with you.

If you get a surprise text from someone who ghosted you and you’re still interested in exploring a potential relationship with them, it's OK to give the text consideration.

How to Respond to Ghosting.

Whether your romantic interest or friend is ignoring you, being ghosted always hurts.

Long story long, I confronted the guy who ghosted me only to find out that he didn’t really ghost me, I just thought he ghosted me because I didn’t follow him up and he didn’t text me because he thought I wasn’t interested, a fact that I confirmed by not following him up.

You made peace with the fact that he ghosted you, he is no longer in your life and that’s it. Getting him to tell you why he ghosted you might seem awkward, but it’s the least that he can do after everything that he put you through. I will share this heart with someone serious about me.” This is an empowering text to send to a guy or girl who ghosted you because it shows regret for getting involved with him or her, but it won’t deter you from finding a good relationship.

Then all of a sudden, the screen on your phone lights up and you see a text from the guy you were sure would never contact you again. Good luck, and I hope another girl/guy/person never has to deal with being ghosted by you.” 4.

“Listen, I can take the hint that you’ve lost interest, but the least you could’ve done is given me a heads up.

Don't beat yourself up if your calls and texts start going unanswered.

You: “Ya, me too, because now I don’t care.” Ghost: “My phone was broken, I didn’t know how to reach you.” You: “And yet you were all over social media.” Either response you take should be thought through with consideration of your feelings, not the person who disappeared on you.